I do not think it is fair asking to pick between two things I need, I want and I can live with.

Because I need both of them, because I do not need to pick between them.

Picking one of them means that I am going to lose the other, the other that I need as well like the one picked.

Picking the other one does not change the situation.

Picking one of them means surely going to be sorrowfull.

But I have to pick, and I already know I will be in part unhappy.

Now, or I pick the one is going to let me feel less sad, hoping I wont regret that in the future, or I pick none of them and than another match will begin.

Just I think it is not fair.